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	<title>Comments on: Can Romance Novels Hurt Your Heart?</title>
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	<description>By Russell D. Moore. Russell D. Moore serves as the teaching pastor at Highview Baptist Church in Louisville, Ky. In addition, Dr. Moore is the Dean of the School of Theology and Senior Vice President for Academic Administration at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. Find sermons and other resources to help Christians engage the culture from a biblical worldview at www.russellmoore.com.</description>
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		<title>By: Julie W.</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-145737</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie W.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2011 19:56:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Cheryl Ricker, 

So Cheryl, does this mean that we as brothers and sisters in Christ should not judge the act and exhort each other to walk in holiness?  I do not know where I would be without the family of God lovingly calling me out when I had ventured into dangerous ground.  

It is the world's way to watch each other go over the edge and care not one whit who loses his soul.  We are warned in the scriptures to be open to instruction by those we hold in holy esteem, to discern truth and walk in it.  How can we learn that we are in error if we never give place to wise counsel from the body as well as the word of God?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Cheryl Ricker, </p>
<p>So Cheryl, does this mean that we as brothers and sisters in Christ should not judge the act and exhort each other to walk in holiness?  I do not know where I would be without the family of God lovingly calling me out when I had ventured into dangerous ground.  </p>
<p>It is the world&#8217;s way to watch each other go over the edge and care not one whit who loses his soul.  We are warned in the scriptures to be open to instruction by those we hold in holy esteem, to discern truth and walk in it.  How can we learn that we are in error if we never give place to wise counsel from the body as well as the word of God?</p>
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		<title>By: Julie W.</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-145726</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie W.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2011 19:47:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a single middle-aged woman who serves in singles' ministry.  In the last two years I had felt God challenge me concerning Christian novels of any sort.  I've always had a propensity to check out of my reality into a novel, and found that when I dealt with this appropriately, God met me where I was and I grown closer to Him.  

It was a trust issue with me, that I didn't believe God would deliver what I needed emotionally and spiritually, so I went looking for it in fiction.  I think it is a dangerous thing when we use anything temporal to substitute what we should be receiving right from the throne of grace.  

Inspiration is fine coming from a book, but when we use the book as a counterfeit of relationship with God, that should be a warning sign that we need to draw closer to God and not fiction.  Life is way too short to be getting lost in someone else's fictional life when we should be living abundantly our own adventure.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a single middle-aged woman who serves in singles&#8217; ministry.  In the last two years I had felt God challenge me concerning Christian novels of any sort.  I&#8217;ve always had a propensity to check out of my reality into a novel, and found that when I dealt with this appropriately, God met me where I was and I grown closer to Him.  </p>
<p>It was a trust issue with me, that I didn&#8217;t believe God would deliver what I needed emotionally and spiritually, so I went looking for it in fiction.  I think it is a dangerous thing when we use anything temporal to substitute what we should be receiving right from the throne of grace.  </p>
<p>Inspiration is fine coming from a book, but when we use the book as a counterfeit of relationship with God, that should be a warning sign that we need to draw closer to God and not fiction.  Life is way too short to be getting lost in someone else&#8217;s fictional life when we should be living abundantly our own adventure.</p>
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		<title>By: Weekend Links, Vol. 15 &#171; Hope Road</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-143826</link>
		<dc:creator>Weekend Links, Vol. 15 &#171; Hope Road</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jun 2011 17:06:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Can Romance Novels Hurt Your Heart? :: Moore to the Point  “Praise God for His Word that alerts me If I confess my sin then I obtain mercy Proverbs 28:13, James 5:16, He&#8217;ll turn me I used to hide all the time till it burned me Now I confess to the Lord it&#8217;s the first thing Then I confess to my fam that I walk with Every nook and cranny, have I lost it? (Nope) I just want to live in light of what the cross did Ain&#8217;t just trying to look Christlike – I’m trying to walk this” -Trip Lee             *name [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Can Romance Novels Hurt Your Heart? :: Moore to the Point  “Praise God for His Word that alerts me If I confess my sin then I obtain mercy Proverbs 28:13, James 5:16, He&#8217;ll turn me I used to hide all the time till it burned me Now I confess to the Lord it&#8217;s the first thing Then I confess to my fam that I walk with Every nook and cranny, have I lost it? (Nope) I just want to live in light of what the cross did Ain&#8217;t just trying to look Christlike – I’m trying to walk this” -Trip Lee             *name [...]</p>
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		<title>By: iPródigo &#124; As histórias românticas podem machucar seu coração?</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-139595</link>
		<dc:creator>iPródigo &#124; As histórias românticas podem machucar seu coração?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jun 2011 02:54:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] por Marianna Brandão &#124; iPródigo.com &#124; Original aqui AKPC_IDS += "5563,"; [...]</description>
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		<title>By: More on Romance and Porn &#171; Light Motifs</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-139149</link>
		<dc:creator>More on Romance and Porn &#171; Light Motifs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2011 14:30:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] mind that in any case. I followed a sidebar link from the KSL piece to Moore to the Point&#8217;s romance novel bloggery. Obviously this is a religious dude with an agenda, but so what if he makes a good argument, I say. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] mind that in any case. I followed a sidebar link from the KSL piece to Moore to the Point&#8217;s romance novel bloggery. Obviously this is a religious dude with an agenda, but so what if he makes a good argument, I say. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: around the web 6-03-2011 &#171; littlesanctuary.com</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-136521</link>
		<dc:creator>around the web 6-03-2011 &#171; littlesanctuary.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jun 2011 13:53:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Moore to the Point – Can Romance Novels Hurt Your Heart? [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Speculative Faith: Imagination: for God’s glory and others’ good, part 2</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-135867</link>
		<dc:creator>Speculative Faith: Imagination: for God’s glory and others’ good, part 2</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2011 20:36:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] entitled: an Open Letter to Fiction Critics replying to Dr. Russell Moore’s column about Christian romance [...]</description>
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		<title>By: E. Stephen Burnett</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-135591</link>
		<dc:creator>E. Stephen Burnett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2011 13:35:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Pamela Nees : then I must ask, why are you taking the word of a "witch" above the more-sure truth of the Bible? If a pagan says "that Thing is mine" (be it a certain book series, or drum rhythm, or art genre) and the Bible says nothing directly about the Thing, and the Christian says "I believe the pagan," who has actually compromised with Paganism? :-)

This is of course a secondary issue to that of whether fiction itself is "untruth" and thus wrong for a Christian to enjoy. But no, the &lt;em&gt;Potter&lt;/em&gt; books don't endorse the actual witchcraft that Scripture condemns. A passing resemblance does not make something a sin. Thinking it does is itself (well-intended) mysticism. Moreover, Scripture does contain many injunctions against dishonesty, which unfortunately I have seen many Christians practice in their fervor to oppose certain books and movies (while others on the other side, of course, are dishonest in saying "it's just fiction" as if stories don't affect our minds). Just something to consider.

Some more questions for some &lt;em&gt;Potter&lt;/em&gt; critics (if Moore and/or his assistants don't/doesn't mind the link!) are &lt;a href="http://www.speculativefaith.com/2010/11/18/how-do-we-love-a-fiction-legalist-part-one/" rel="nofollow"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. (The column references "legalism," but please don't assume my intent is to be "legalistic" myself against perceived "legalism"! &lt;em&gt;:-)&lt;/em&gt; )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Pamela Nees : then I must ask, why are you taking the word of a &#8220;witch&#8221; above the more-sure truth of the Bible? If a pagan says &#8220;that Thing is mine&#8221; (be it a certain book series, or drum rhythm, or art genre) and the Bible says nothing directly about the Thing, and the Christian says &#8220;I believe the pagan,&#8221; who has actually compromised with Paganism? :-)</p>
<p>This is of course a secondary issue to that of whether fiction itself is &#8220;untruth&#8221; and thus wrong for a Christian to enjoy. But no, the <em>Potter</em> books don&#8217;t endorse the actual witchcraft that Scripture condemns. A passing resemblance does not make something a sin. Thinking it does is itself (well-intended) mysticism. Moreover, Scripture does contain many injunctions against dishonesty, which unfortunately I have seen many Christians practice in their fervor to oppose certain books and movies (while others on the other side, of course, are dishonest in saying &#8220;it&#8217;s just fiction&#8221; as if stories don&#8217;t affect our minds). Just something to consider.</p>
<p>Some more questions for some <em>Potter</em> critics (if Moore and/or his assistants don&#8217;t/doesn&#8217;t mind the link!) are <a href="http://www.speculativefaith.com/2010/11/18/how-do-we-love-a-fiction-legalist-part-one/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/comment/www.speculativefaith.com');" rel="nofollow">here</a>. (The column references &#8220;legalism,&#8221; but please don&#8217;t assume my intent is to be &#8220;legalistic&#8221; myself against perceived &#8220;legalism&#8221;! <em>:-)</em> )</p>
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		<title>By: bookstorecat</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-135317</link>
		<dc:creator>bookstorecat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2011 06:33:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@J Kent Kroencke, 

Why should a woman love a "lump on the couch"? Good romance novels are like any other kind of good fiction--they have well-rounded characters, with both strengths and flaws. Kind of like real people. Watch out, ladies, if you enjoy stories about interesting characters trying to resolve their differences or overcome an obstacle, you might like romance novels!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@J Kent Kroencke, </p>
<p>Why should a woman love a &#8220;lump on the couch&#8221;? Good romance novels are like any other kind of good fiction&#8211;they have well-rounded characters, with both strengths and flaws. Kind of like real people. Watch out, ladies, if you enjoy stories about interesting characters trying to resolve their differences or overcome an obstacle, you might like romance novels!</p>
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		<title>By: Wednesday Midday Links: Plagiarism in Blogland &#124; Dear Author</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-134670</link>
		<dc:creator>Wednesday Midday Links: Plagiarism in Blogland &#124; Dear Author</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2011 15:49:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] &#8220;romance as pornography&#8221; meme*; Russell Moore takes it even further by suggesting that Christian romance novels where the couple pray together are an invidious force against happy marriages. Even the New Yorker [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] &#8220;romance as pornography&#8221; meme*; Russell Moore takes it even further by suggesting that Christian romance novels where the couple pray together are an invidious force against happy marriages. Even the New Yorker [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Jane Hudson</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-134590</link>
		<dc:creator>Jane Hudson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2011 13:48:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tim Challies raised a ruckus over The Shack.

Dr. Albert Mohler got people bent out of shape with his yoga article. 

Now daring Dr. Moore kindly and compassionately presents research-based information that targets one of Christian women's most sacred cows. 

Some may say, "How dare they?" 

I say, "Thanks to each of you for your faithful and loving service to the Body of Christ."</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tim Challies raised a ruckus over The Shack.</p>
<p>Dr. Albert Mohler got people bent out of shape with his yoga article. </p>
<p>Now daring Dr. Moore kindly and compassionately presents research-based information that targets one of Christian women&#8217;s most sacred cows. </p>
<p>Some may say, &#8220;How dare they?&#8221; </p>
<p>I say, &#8220;Thanks to each of you for your faithful and loving service to the Body of Christ.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Jane Hudson</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-134260</link>
		<dc:creator>Jane Hudson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2011 03:55:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Siri Mitchell, 
Please don't remove this post, Dr. Moore. Not everyone shares Siri's opinion.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Siri Mitchell,<br />
Please don&#8217;t remove this post, Dr. Moore. Not everyone shares Siri&#8217;s opinion.</p>
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		<title>By: dan</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-132584</link>
		<dc:creator>dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 May 2011 06:59:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Melanie Dickerson, I don't know what romance novel writers profess to be 'christian',Deb Macomber,Robyn Carr,Sherri Woods &#38; Nora Roberts, are all writers my wife reads. All of these write in traffic detail about sexual relations between nonmarried &#38; even others spouses. This hurts when she will not have relations with me and also gets angry if she knows I've read some of them. Why?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Melanie Dickerson, I don&#8217;t know what romance novel writers profess to be &#8216;christian&#8217;,Deb Macomber,Robyn Carr,Sherri Woods &amp; Nora Roberts, are all writers my wife reads. All of these write in traffic detail about sexual relations between nonmarried &amp; even others spouses. This hurts when she will not have relations with me and also gets angry if she knows I&#8217;ve read some of them. Why?</p>
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		<title>By: dan</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-132313</link>
		<dc:creator>dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 May 2011 18:59:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am writing from a different perspective than many of you, for I am a man who has struggled with pornography for over 40 years. After being found out recently, I sought the Lord who brought deliverance like I only hoped for in prior years. This did not come easy, much personal prayer and surrender,   plus banishment by my wife to separate bedrooms. Regardless, God gave me glorious victory, so you can imagine the betrayal I felt when I happened to pick up a novel my wife was reading and discovered in TRAFFIC detail sexual relations between two adults, premaritl as well. Now you women can tell me there is no arousals to this, but I don't believe it for one moment. It was very pornographic in appeal and I was sick in the pit of my stomach. 2 faced betrayal has hit home. What now?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am writing from a different perspective than many of you, for I am a man who has struggled with pornography for over 40 years. After being found out recently, I sought the Lord who brought deliverance like I only hoped for in prior years. This did not come easy, much personal prayer and surrender,   plus banishment by my wife to separate bedrooms. Regardless, God gave me glorious victory, so you can imagine the betrayal I felt when I happened to pick up a novel my wife was reading and discovered in TRAFFIC detail sexual relations between two adults, premaritl as well. Now you women can tell me there is no arousals to this, but I don&#8217;t believe it for one moment. It was very pornographic in appeal and I was sick in the pit of my stomach. 2 faced betrayal has hit home. What now?</p>
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		<title>By: Jean</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-131709</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 May 2011 21:41:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Ronie, well said, Ronie. Thanks.</description>
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		<title>By: Jean</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-131708</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 May 2011 21:39:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Kit Wilkinson,  Thanks, Kit, for your defense of something dear to my heart. Hannah Alexander I so agree with you, that more should read Christian fiction. It certainly will challenge a person to move closer to the Lord.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Kit Wilkinson,  Thanks, Kit, for your defense of something dear to my heart. Hannah Alexander I so agree with you, that more should read Christian fiction. It certainly will challenge a person to move closer to the Lord.</p>
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		<title>By: Links of the Week &#171; My World</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-130970</link>
		<dc:creator>Links of the Week &#171; My World</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 May 2011 20:49:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Are romance novels porn for women? [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Enid McBride</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-130219</link>
		<dc:creator>Enid McBride</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 May 2011 21:10:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sarah I would have to disagree with you on that if something is distructive then it is not good for anyone.  You would not say "that’s a decision for parents to make on an individual basis upon consideration of the spiritual maturity of their child." for something like drugs you would say it was wrong or how about sex out of marriage a wrong is a wrong no matter how many are doing it or how many think it is right to do.  And anything wrong and not in truth with God is bad for the soul and hurts the person and should stay away from it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah I would have to disagree with you on that if something is distructive then it is not good for anyone.  You would not say &#8220;that’s a decision for parents to make on an individual basis upon consideration of the spiritual maturity of their child.&#8221; for something like drugs you would say it was wrong or how about sex out of marriage a wrong is a wrong no matter how many are doing it or how many think it is right to do.  And anything wrong and not in truth with God is bad for the soul and hurts the person and should stay away from it.</p>
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		<title>By: Speculative Faith: Imagination: for God’s glory and others’ good, part 1</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-130121</link>
		<dc:creator>Speculative Faith: Imagination: for God’s glory and others’ good, part 1</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 May 2011 16:44:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I’m sure is a connection between recent discussions: an online column by Russell Moore called Can Romance Novels Hurt Your Heart?, our own Fred Warren’s satirical take on overreactions to bad fiction, and (why not?) Harold [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Wednesday Link List &#171; Thinking Out Loud</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-129265</link>
		<dc:creator>Wednesday Link List &#171; Thinking Out Loud</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 May 2011 09:24:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Russell D. Moore tears a strip off the romance novel genre, and before leaving the topic suggests that while some of their Christian equivalents are different, some are not.  Can Romance Novels Hurt Your Heart? [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Considering Pornography and Women &#171; Cavman Considers</title>
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		<dc:creator>Considering Pornography and Women &#171; Cavman Considers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2011 23:19:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Don&#8217;t get me wrong- I&#8217;m not saying the romance novels is as morally repugnant as porn.  But they operate in a similar fashion, and are just as addictive and just as dangerous to a marriage. &#8220;And in both cases, what the “market” wants is sameness. Men want the illusion of women wh... [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Don&#8217;t get me wrong- I&#8217;m not saying the romance novels is as morally repugnant as porn.  But they operate in a similar fashion, and are just as addictive and just as dangerous to a marriage. &#8220;And in both cases, what the “market” wants is sameness. Men want the illusion of women wh&#8230; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Cheryl Ricker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cheryl Ricker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2011 15:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a Christian, I'm to presume you wrote this to help people rather than to hinder them.  In that case, thank you!   

I'm also thankful that God knows your heart, just as He knows the hearts of all my Christian reader/writer friends.

I only have two things to say:

Romans 14:4-6 

4 Who are you to judge someone else’s servant? To their own master, servants stand or fall. And they will stand, for the Lord is able to make them stand.

 5 One person considers one day more sacred than another; another considers every day alike. Each of them should be fully convinced in their own mind. 6 Whoever regards one day as special does so to the Lord. Whoever eats meat does so to the Lord, for they give thanks to God; and whoever abstains does so to the Lord and gives thanks to God.


John 15:16-17 

You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you. 17 This is my command: Love each other.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a Christian, I&#8217;m to presume you wrote this to help people rather than to hinder them.  In that case, thank you!   </p>
<p>I&#8217;m also thankful that God knows your heart, just as He knows the hearts of all my Christian reader/writer friends.</p>
<p>I only have two things to say:</p>
<p>Romans 14:4-6 </p>
<p>4 Who are you to judge someone else’s servant? To their own master, servants stand or fall. And they will stand, for the Lord is able to make them stand.</p>
<p> 5 One person considers one day more sacred than another; another considers every day alike. Each of them should be fully convinced in their own mind. 6 Whoever regards one day as special does so to the Lord. Whoever eats meat does so to the Lord, for they give thanks to God; and whoever abstains does so to the Lord and gives thanks to God.</p>
<p>John 15:16-17 </p>
<p>You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you. 17 This is my command: Love each other.</p>
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		<title>By: Adrienne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adrienne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2011 12:51:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don't know why people are saying Pride and Predjudice is an exception to Mr. Moore's article. How many women own a 'I heart Mr. Darcy' t-shirt? Or walk away with longing for a Mr. Darcy or a Captain Fredrick Wentworth?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know why people are saying Pride and Predjudice is an exception to Mr. Moore&#8217;s article. How many women own a &#8216;I heart Mr. Darcy&#8217; t-shirt? Or walk away with longing for a Mr. Darcy or a Captain Fredrick Wentworth?</p>
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		<title>By: Shannon Taylor Vannatter</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-128428</link>
		<dc:creator>Shannon Taylor Vannatter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2011 02:10:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Shannon Taylor Vannatter, Thanks Hannah. I hope so and bless you in your writing also. I'm in awe that you commented on my little comment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Shannon Taylor Vannatter, Thanks Hannah. I hope so and bless you in your writing also. I&#8217;m in awe that you commented on my little comment.</p>
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		<title>By: Adrienne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adrienne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2011 23:53:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Bodie Thoene, Nicely put Bodie. I enjoyed reading your comment.</description>
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		<title>By: yankeegospelgirl</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-128268</link>
		<dc:creator>yankeegospelgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2011 19:10:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@E. Stephen, those "supposed" direct occult connections aren't just "rumors." There are former witches who have repeatedly confirmed those connections.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@E. Stephen, those &#8220;supposed&#8221; direct occult connections aren&#8217;t just &#8220;rumors.&#8221; There are former witches who have repeatedly confirmed those connections.</p>
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		<title>By: yankeegospelgirl</title>
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		<dc:creator>yankeegospelgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2011 19:08:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Pamela Nees, Mark Driscoll makes me laugh on this. He describes the scenario of a Christian dad coming into his daughter's room and saying, "Honey, why don't you read your Bible?" To which she replies, "I don't have time. I'm reading _The Sorceress_."</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Pamela Nees, Mark Driscoll makes me laugh on this. He describes the scenario of a Christian dad coming into his daughter&#8217;s room and saying, &#8220;Honey, why don&#8217;t you read your Bible?&#8221; To which she replies, &#8220;I don&#8217;t have time. I&#8217;m reading _The Sorceress_.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: &#8220;Hold On To Your Hearts, Ladies&#8221; &#171; Stuff My Sisters Will Like</title>
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		<dc:creator>&#8220;Hold On To Your Hearts, Ladies&#8221; &#171; Stuff My Sisters Will Like</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2011 13:30:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] don&#8217;t know if you&#8217;ll fall in love with it, but this article on the subtle dangers of romance novels should be the most interesting thing you&#8217;ll read all day.    Did you know: A harlequin is [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] don&#8217;t know if you&#8217;ll fall in love with it, but this article on the subtle dangers of romance novels should be the most interesting thing you&#8217;ll read all day.    Did you know: A harlequin is [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Kathy Herman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathy Herman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 May 2011 20:03:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I completely agree with Gayle! The Scriptures tell us what we should do, and stories show us how its done. I write inspirational suspense novels. By creating believable, flawed characters who struggle with real-life challenges, I'm able to show the gospel being lived out (without preaching). I hear from readers every day whose lives have been positively impacted by what GOD has done through my characters. Never underestimate the power of story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completely agree with Gayle! The Scriptures tell us what we should do, and stories show us how its done. I write inspirational suspense novels. By creating believable, flawed characters who struggle with real-life challenges, I&#8217;m able to show the gospel being lived out (without preaching). I hear from readers every day whose lives have been positively impacted by what GOD has done through my characters. Never underestimate the power of story.</p>
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		<title>By: Best Links of the Week &#171; Modern Pensées</title>
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		<dc:creator>Best Links of the Week &#171; Modern Pensées</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 May 2011 17:05:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Russell Moore has an interesting piece on the parallels between what Romance Novels do for women and what Pornography doe.... [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Cathy Wills</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-127211</link>
		<dc:creator>Cathy Wills</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 May 2011 16:55:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is my conviction that most of the people who are taking the time to read and understand Dr. Moore's writings are seeking to improve their tastes and affections and intellects so that they will be better able to represent and honor and serve the Lord in their churches and in the world.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is my conviction that most of the people who are taking the time to read and understand Dr. Moore&#8217;s writings are seeking to improve their tastes and affections and intellects so that they will be better able to represent and honor and serve the Lord in their churches and in the world.</p>
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		<title>By: Bodie Thoene</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-127201</link>
		<dc:creator>Bodie Thoene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 May 2011 16:32:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been a Christian fiction writer for 26 years.  It's all about the ministry of Parables!   I began my writing career working for John Wayne.  Duke knew I was a brand new Christian, uncertain how to share my faith without beating people over the head with a Bible.   I am a historical novelist, but near EVERY novel I have written contains the necessary story element of romance.
     John Wayne taught me,  "Bodie,  you can tell people what they need to know about God as long as you put it in a good story."    He also said,  "If you write a strong male lead character in the midst of great personal conflict the women will want to read it!"   
    Finally,  Duke deplored graphic sex in film and in novels:  "Romance is an intergal part of the human heart.   God put it there for a reason."  At this point he quoted Song of Songs and discussed the Biblical portrayal of David and Bathsheba.  Then as he spoke about HOW I SHOULD WRITE ROMANCE,  he said,   "But always remember,  sex is a participation sport,  it's not a spectator sport."   For every Christian novelist and every reader of Christian fiction,  that is what separates us from the world's portrayal of "romance."  
    Life without God's beautiful holy romance is what hurts our hearts!   There are many readers who long to know what God wants between a man and a woman,  and Christian Romance novels offer that beauty and touch the tender places in our hearts.   It is VITAL  that Christian writers hold the line and tell the stories God has put in their hearts to tell!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been a Christian fiction writer for 26 years.  It&#8217;s all about the ministry of Parables!   I began my writing career working for John Wayne.  Duke knew I was a brand new Christian, uncertain how to share my faith without beating people over the head with a Bible.   I am a historical novelist, but near EVERY novel I have written contains the necessary story element of romance.<br />
     John Wayne taught me,  &#8220;Bodie,  you can tell people what they need to know about God as long as you put it in a good story.&#8221;    He also said,  &#8220;If you write a strong male lead character in the midst of great personal conflict the women will want to read it!&#8221;<br />
    Finally,  Duke deplored graphic sex in film and in novels:  &#8220;Romance is an intergal part of the human heart.   God put it there for a reason.&#8221;  At this point he quoted Song of Songs and discussed the Biblical portrayal of David and Bathsheba.  Then as he spoke about HOW I SHOULD WRITE ROMANCE,  he said,   &#8220;But always remember,  sex is a participation sport,  it&#8217;s not a spectator sport.&#8221;   For every Christian novelist and every reader of Christian fiction,  that is what separates us from the world&#8217;s portrayal of &#8220;romance.&#8221;<br />
    Life without God&#8217;s beautiful holy romance is what hurts our hearts!   There are many readers who long to know what God wants between a man and a woman,  and Christian Romance novels offer that beauty and touch the tender places in our hearts.   It is VITAL  that Christian writers hold the line and tell the stories God has put in their hearts to tell!</p>
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		<title>By: Livi Pittman</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-127167</link>
		<dc:creator>Livi Pittman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 May 2011 14:51:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Jenny B. Jones, 
You said it so much better than I ever could have! Thank you so much Jenny!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Jenny B. Jones,<br />
You said it so much better than I ever could have! Thank you so much Jenny!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Marie Plante</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-127166</link>
		<dc:creator>Marie Plante</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 May 2011 14:49:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Christian fiction is a sword raised against the secular fiction culture.  It is a ministry to draw readers back to God, opposed to away from him. To remind them of His love and forgiveness and that it is not by our own strength we overcome adversity in our lives. Secular romances glorify the works of the flesh. Christian fiction does not. 

To remove it, would cause a further implosion of the culture. 

Mr. Moore, are you aware that Christian authors have been banned or shunned by literary groups and societies because of their faith? You have no idea some of the persecution Christian authors have experienced because we refuse to write literary porn. We don't mind the persecution and we have dug in our heels against the culture.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Christian fiction is a sword raised against the secular fiction culture.  It is a ministry to draw readers back to God, opposed to away from him. To remind them of His love and forgiveness and that it is not by our own strength we overcome adversity in our lives. Secular romances glorify the works of the flesh. Christian fiction does not. </p>
<p>To remove it, would cause a further implosion of the culture. </p>
<p>Mr. Moore, are you aware that Christian authors have been banned or shunned by literary groups and societies because of their faith? You have no idea some of the persecution Christian authors have experienced because we refuse to write literary porn. We don&#8217;t mind the persecution and we have dug in our heels against the culture.</p>
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		<title>By: Livi Pittman</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-127163</link>
		<dc:creator>Livi Pittman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 May 2011 14:37:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Christian Fiction is just that- fiction. It's not real. And unless there's some bad language or intense sexual content I think it's okay. IF you know the difference between fiction and reality. If you go around thinking Hogwarts is real and Jacob is going to run out of La Push than you probably shouldn't fill your brain with stuff like that. Just 1 'teenage Christian woman's'(not to mention Preacher's Daughter's) opinion.

Livi</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Christian Fiction is just that- fiction. It&#8217;s not real. And unless there&#8217;s some bad language or intense sexual content I think it&#8217;s okay. IF you know the difference between fiction and reality. If you go around thinking Hogwarts is real and Jacob is going to run out of La Push than you probably shouldn&#8217;t fill your brain with stuff like that. Just 1 &#8216;teenage Christian woman&#8217;s&#8217;(not to mention Preacher&#8217;s Daughter&#8217;s) opinion.</p>
<p>Livi</p>
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		<title>By: Annie</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-127128</link>
		<dc:creator>Annie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 May 2011 11:50:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Jay Dubs, those of us upset by this are upset because *Christian* romance in fact DOES have the goal of enhancing intimacy--with God, with family, with spouses. 

It isn't enough to say "I'm not equating it with pornography" after quoting a study that says just that (about MAINSTREAM romance, then making an assumption that Christian romance is built on the same foundation, which is an assumption one ought not make). It isn't enough to say "If it doesn't draw you away from your spouse then *maybe* it's okay." That's like me saying, "Maybe if your pastor doesn't dive into the cultish than he's not harmful." "Not harmful" doesn't give that pastor the credit he deserves for the hours of prayer, the mountain of good, the souls saved through his words. Nor does saying "not to equate romance novels with pornography" give Christian authors their due.

When will the leaders of the church acknowledge that this may not just be "not evil" but that it is in fact a ministry? 

Imagine how upset a missionary would be if a pastor got up and said, "I'm not saying ALL missionaries are evil, but have you heard about what some of them did in this place over here? I mean, they have a sexual position named after them. Ask yourself--do these people ever do harm?" 

Would you be outraged on their behalf because the pastor focused on the harm of a few? I sure would be. I know missionaries who have poured their heart and soul into their calling, and if someone spoke like that from a pulpit before introducing them, you can bet they'd be rightly upset. I bet you would be too--or would you say, "He didn't say they were ALL evil! Why are you people upset?" Somehow I doubt you would defend such a pastor in the face of a missionary who'd been hurt by his words.

Please consider that before you defend a position that attacks a ministry God has called thousands of His people to.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Jay Dubs, those of us upset by this are upset because *Christian* romance in fact DOES have the goal of enhancing intimacy&#8211;with God, with family, with spouses. </p>
<p>It isn&#8217;t enough to say &#8220;I&#8217;m not equating it with pornography&#8221; after quoting a study that says just that (about MAINSTREAM romance, then making an assumption that Christian romance is built on the same foundation, which is an assumption one ought not make). It isn&#8217;t enough to say &#8220;If it doesn&#8217;t draw you away from your spouse then *maybe* it&#8217;s okay.&#8221; That&#8217;s like me saying, &#8220;Maybe if your pastor doesn&#8217;t dive into the cultish than he&#8217;s not harmful.&#8221; &#8220;Not harmful&#8221; doesn&#8217;t give that pastor the credit he deserves for the hours of prayer, the mountain of good, the souls saved through his words. Nor does saying &#8220;not to equate romance novels with pornography&#8221; give Christian authors their due.</p>
<p>When will the leaders of the church acknowledge that this may not just be &#8220;not evil&#8221; but that it is in fact a ministry? </p>
<p>Imagine how upset a missionary would be if a pastor got up and said, &#8220;I&#8217;m not saying ALL missionaries are evil, but have you heard about what some of them did in this place over here? I mean, they have a sexual position named after them. Ask yourself&#8211;do these people ever do harm?&#8221; </p>
<p>Would you be outraged on their behalf because the pastor focused on the harm of a few? I sure would be. I know missionaries who have poured their heart and soul into their calling, and if someone spoke like that from a pulpit before introducing them, you can bet they&#8217;d be rightly upset. I bet you would be too&#8211;or would you say, &#8220;He didn&#8217;t say they were ALL evil! Why are you people upset?&#8221; Somehow I doubt you would defend such a pastor in the face of a missionary who&#8217;d been hurt by his words.</p>
<p>Please consider that before you defend a position that attacks a ministry God has called thousands of His people to.</p>
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		<title>By: Micah Nordland</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-127097</link>
		<dc:creator>Micah Nordland</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 May 2011 10:18:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One thing also to be said, I have read portions of several "Christian" romance novels, and found them to contain rather explicit descriptions of sexual intimacy, both inside and outside the bounds of marriage. That's why when I have nothing else to read, I don't read a romance novel. In my fight to remain pure, I don't need a "Christian" book to throw me off balance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One thing also to be said, I have read portions of several &#8220;Christian&#8221; romance novels, and found them to contain rather explicit descriptions of sexual intimacy, both inside and outside the bounds of marriage. That&#8217;s why when I have nothing else to read, I don&#8217;t read a romance novel. In my fight to remain pure, I don&#8217;t need a &#8220;Christian&#8221; book to throw me off balance.</p>
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		<title>By: Ronya Ervin</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-126906</link>
		<dc:creator>Ronya Ervin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 May 2011 00:38:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Devin Mork, 

If we were discussing the books you've mentioned and other secular books, I would agree wholeheartedly with the article, but we're not.

I don't think that the description above is anywhere near the truth of most Christian fiction. The author's that I read have been given a gift by God to guide readers towards Him...that He is the only place to find all that they need. There is no alpha male or perfect woman...we are all sinners. But by the grace of God redeemed. These stories are about redemption in all the various forms that God uses in everyday life to help us find Him.

I find that reading about these characters not only brings me closer to God myself, but gives me a little insight, helping me to be more understanding and accepting when I can't comprehend the thoughts, feelings or motives of others.

I'm not saying that it's impossible to find books that will prove the above statements, but they are not the norm in Christian fiction and I believe that this article does a huge dis-service to people, the authors, and mostly to God by suggesting this all in such a negative light.

I recommend reading a few...maybe God will bless you through them as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Devin Mork, </p>
<p>If we were discussing the books you&#8217;ve mentioned and other secular books, I would agree wholeheartedly with the article, but we&#8217;re not.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think that the description above is anywhere near the truth of most Christian fiction. The author&#8217;s that I read have been given a gift by God to guide readers towards Him&#8230;that He is the only place to find all that they need. There is no alpha male or perfect woman&#8230;we are all sinners. But by the grace of God redeemed. These stories are about redemption in all the various forms that God uses in everyday life to help us find Him.</p>
<p>I find that reading about these characters not only brings me closer to God myself, but gives me a little insight, helping me to be more understanding and accepting when I can&#8217;t comprehend the thoughts, feelings or motives of others.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying that it&#8217;s impossible to find books that will prove the above statements, but they are not the norm in Christian fiction and I believe that this article does a huge dis-service to people, the authors, and mostly to God by suggesting this all in such a negative light.</p>
<p>I recommend reading a few&#8230;maybe God will bless you through them as well.</p>
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		<title>By: Jay Dubs</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jay Dubs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 21:29:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"A lot of this genre, though, is simply a Christianization of a form not intended to enhance intimacy but to escape to an artificial illusion of it. "

there's the comparison to pornography: 

pornography doesn't enhance intimacy, but allows the person entrenched in it to escape to an artificial illusion of intimacy.

Romance novels don't enhance intimacy, they allow the reader to escape into an artificial illusion of intimacy.  

Dr.  Moore isn't saying that if you read/write romance novels that you're doing something equal to filming a pornographic video.  Perhaps the vast majority of people never actually read the article - if for some reason they read this post instead - which is doubtful - and are still infuriated, perhaps you should read the last paragraph of the post:

"This is not to equate morally “romance novels” with the grave soul destruction of pornography. But it is worth asking, “Is what I’m consuming leading me toward contentment with my spouse (or future spouse) or away from it? Is it pointing me to the other in one-flesh union or to an eroticized embodiment of my own desires? Is this the mystery or a mirage?"</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;A lot of this genre, though, is simply a Christianization of a form not intended to enhance intimacy but to escape to an artificial illusion of it. &#8221;</p>
<p>there&#8217;s the comparison to pornography: </p>
<p>pornography doesn&#8217;t enhance intimacy, but allows the person entrenched in it to escape to an artificial illusion of intimacy.</p>
<p>Romance novels don&#8217;t enhance intimacy, they allow the reader to escape into an artificial illusion of intimacy.  </p>
<p>Dr.  Moore isn&#8217;t saying that if you read/write romance novels that you&#8217;re doing something equal to filming a pornographic video.  Perhaps the vast majority of people never actually read the article - if for some reason they read this post instead - which is doubtful - and are still infuriated, perhaps you should read the last paragraph of the post:</p>
<p>&#8220;This is not to equate morally “romance novels” with the grave soul destruction of pornography. But it is worth asking, “Is what I’m consuming leading me toward contentment with my spouse (or future spouse) or away from it? Is it pointing me to the other in one-flesh union or to an eroticized embodiment of my own desires? Is this the mystery or a mirage?&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Hannah Alexander</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hannah Alexander</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 20:40:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Hannah Alexander, 
OOPS! Sorry for the additional post. I had thought my first attempt didn't make it through. Should have waited awhile. Actually, I'm beginning to enjoy a lot of the sharing on this unintended "loop" and hope we as Christians can all reach a better understanding. As my pastor told me yesterday, we're all a lot closer to one another than we are to the rest of the world, no matter our differences.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Hannah Alexander,<br />
OOPS! Sorry for the additional post. I had thought my first attempt didn&#8217;t make it through. Should have waited awhile. Actually, I&#8217;m beginning to enjoy a lot of the sharing on this unintended &#8220;loop&#8221; and hope we as Christians can all reach a better understanding. As my pastor told me yesterday, we&#8217;re all a lot closer to one another than we are to the rest of the world, no matter our differences.</p>
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		<title>By: Hannah Alexander</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-126787</link>
		<dc:creator>Hannah Alexander</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 20:36:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Shannon Taylor Vannatter, How wonderful to read that a SB pastor's wife is writing Christian romance novels. I can imagine how many seekers are being fed, and souls led to Christ, through your work. Bless you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Shannon Taylor Vannatter, How wonderful to read that a SB pastor&#8217;s wife is writing Christian romance novels. I can imagine how many seekers are being fed, and souls led to Christ, through your work. Bless you!</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly Ropson</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-126765</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly Ropson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 19:50:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Melissa Griffin, 
Christian fiction's "best" is not entertainment.  I learn just as much spiritually from reading Christian Fiction as I do Christian Non-Fiction.  Theology is great, biographies are great...  but those aren't the only venues God uses to reach/teach people.  I read through stacks of non-fiction and fiction yearly, and I can honestly say that I am moved and changed equally by both.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Melissa Griffin,<br />
Christian fiction&#8217;s &#8220;best&#8221; is not entertainment.  I learn just as much spiritually from reading Christian Fiction as I do Christian Non-Fiction.  Theology is great, biographies are great&#8230;  but those aren&#8217;t the only venues God uses to reach/teach people.  I read through stacks of non-fiction and fiction yearly, and I can honestly say that I am moved and changed equally by both.</p>
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		<title>By: Hannah Alexander</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hannah Alexander</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 19:43:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would urge the writer of this blog to read a few more novels written by Christian novelists before condemning a huge number of God's ministers as purveyors of pornography. We are co-servants in Christ, called by God to write what we write, to draw hearts closer to Him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would urge the writer of this blog to read a few more novels written by Christian novelists before condemning a huge number of God&#8217;s ministers as purveyors of pornography. We are co-servants in Christ, called by God to write what we write, to draw hearts closer to Him.</p>
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		<title>By: Melanie Dickerson</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-126754</link>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Dickerson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 19:27:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can agree that secular Romance novels are possibly harmful. But can Christian Romance novels be harmful? The answer is, no, not really. In fact, I would highly recommend that Dr. Moore and the other commenters who agree with him comparing pornography to Christian Romance actually read a few Christian romances. I'd be happy to recommend a few.

Here are some more appropriate questions:
Was romance invented by God? Yes.
Is God pleased with wives' enjoyment of our husbands and romance within godly parameters? Yes.
Is legalism harmful? Yes.
Can a lost person come to the Lord through a Christian romance novel? Yes.
Does God call certain people to minister through Christian fiction? Yes.
Do Christian romances make me see my wonderful Christian husband in a bad light? No.
Do they create discontent in a godly woman? No.
Do they cause me to yearn for something I can't have? No.

I challenge you to read one and decide for yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can agree that secular Romance novels are possibly harmful. But can Christian Romance novels be harmful? The answer is, no, not really. In fact, I would highly recommend that Dr. Moore and the other commenters who agree with him comparing pornography to Christian Romance actually read a few Christian romances. I&#8217;d be happy to recommend a few.</p>
<p>Here are some more appropriate questions:<br />
Was romance invented by God? Yes.<br />
Is God pleased with wives&#8217; enjoyment of our husbands and romance within godly parameters? Yes.<br />
Is legalism harmful? Yes.<br />
Can a lost person come to the Lord through a Christian romance novel? Yes.<br />
Does God call certain people to minister through Christian fiction? Yes.<br />
Do Christian romances make me see my wonderful Christian husband in a bad light? No.<br />
Do they create discontent in a godly woman? No.<br />
Do they cause me to yearn for something I can&#8217;t have? No.</p>
<p>I challenge you to read one and decide for yourself.</p>
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		<title>By: Allie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Allie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 19:21:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mr. Moore,

I want to thank you for so prominently displaying Laura Frantz's book on your website! Its gone on my to-buy list now. :)


On the serious side:

Yes, I was being serious - its a book I hadn't come across yet and based on what folks have said, it looks to be a good one so I'm getting it.

I will have to say that this whole conversation has made me sad. You all may not see it, but I'm Facebook friends with many, many Christian Romance writers. Writers are already a melancholy lot who continually have to fight against the darkness on a regular basis. Satan and his minions are constantly attacking them through every avenue he can. And most of these women (and men) are already wired to feel emotions at a greater depth than most folks - its what allows them to convey the written word at such a great level to others. And then to have a prominent theologian critique their work and compare it to the darkness? Oye vey. 

Can some women read a romance book and be led astray? Of course, but is it the romance books fault? Maybe... maybe not. If the book is written by a Christian who has committed him or herself to God and prayed over the entire process - well that's completely different than someone who is writing their novel to tantalize the reader. If God is in the process of the writing of the book, and a reader goes astray - its because of their own heart to begin. 

The most recognizable name in Christian Romance would be Francine Rivers. Have you read her testimony? You need to if you haven't. She made a huge name for herself writing the books that you are rightly warning women against. And then she came back to the Lord. She tried to keep writing those books and found she couldn't. It wasn't until she gave her writing over to God that He transformed it. The first book she wrote is probably the #1 Christian Romance book of all time - Redeeming Love (whether it actually is the #1 selling book or not, I know it tops the list of many readers' lists of favorites). Now if Christian Romance Books were so wrong to begin with then how is it that God had the power to stop her from writing secular books but yet apparently doesn't have the power to stop her from writing Christian Roman? He does - but obviously she is doing the ministry that He has called her to, and so she flourishes in that ministry and lives are changed. 

Like everything else - a book is a _thing_ - the heart behind making it and the heart that is receiving it are the conditions we need to look out for. And I think that was the message that you were trying to convey, but honestly I feel you weren't careful enough in your presentation to fully explain your thoughts. 

It is a good and noble thing to warn people of danger. Just as meat offered to idols may be something that some need to stay away from; others can eat it without problem - and it had nothing to do with the meat itself, but had to do with the hearts of those partaking. Let us be cognizant when we warn people to "be careful" to not get carried away with generalizations and assumptions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mr. Moore,</p>
<p>I want to thank you for so prominently displaying Laura Frantz&#8217;s book on your website! Its gone on my to-buy list now. :)</p>
<p>On the serious side:</p>
<p>Yes, I was being serious - its a book I hadn&#8217;t come across yet and based on what folks have said, it looks to be a good one so I&#8217;m getting it.</p>
<p>I will have to say that this whole conversation has made me sad. You all may not see it, but I&#8217;m Facebook friends with many, many Christian Romance writers. Writers are already a melancholy lot who continually have to fight against the darkness on a regular basis. Satan and his minions are constantly attacking them through every avenue he can. And most of these women (and men) are already wired to feel emotions at a greater depth than most folks - its what allows them to convey the written word at such a great level to others. And then to have a prominent theologian critique their work and compare it to the darkness? Oye vey. </p>
<p>Can some women read a romance book and be led astray? Of course, but is it the romance books fault? Maybe&#8230; maybe not. If the book is written by a Christian who has committed him or herself to God and prayed over the entire process - well that&#8217;s completely different than someone who is writing their novel to tantalize the reader. If God is in the process of the writing of the book, and a reader goes astray - its because of their own heart to begin. </p>
<p>The most recognizable name in Christian Romance would be Francine Rivers. Have you read her testimony? You need to if you haven&#8217;t. She made a huge name for herself writing the books that you are rightly warning women against. And then she came back to the Lord. She tried to keep writing those books and found she couldn&#8217;t. It wasn&#8217;t until she gave her writing over to God that He transformed it. The first book she wrote is probably the #1 Christian Romance book of all time - Redeeming Love (whether it actually is the #1 selling book or not, I know it tops the list of many readers&#8217; lists of favorites). Now if Christian Romance Books were so wrong to begin with then how is it that God had the power to stop her from writing secular books but yet apparently doesn&#8217;t have the power to stop her from writing Christian Roman? He does - but obviously she is doing the ministry that He has called her to, and so she flourishes in that ministry and lives are changed. </p>
<p>Like everything else - a book is a _thing_ - the heart behind making it and the heart that is receiving it are the conditions we need to look out for. And I think that was the message that you were trying to convey, but honestly I feel you weren&#8217;t careful enough in your presentation to fully explain your thoughts. </p>
<p>It is a good and noble thing to warn people of danger. Just as meat offered to idols may be something that some need to stay away from; others can eat it without problem - and it had nothing to do with the meat itself, but had to do with the hearts of those partaking. Let us be cognizant when we warn people to &#8220;be careful&#8221; to not get carried away with generalizations and assumptions.</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel Wilder</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel Wilder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 18:23:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Melissa Griffin, many of the women who have responded to this post are not romance readers. They are romance AUTHORS. I am priviliged to count many of them as my friends.

I'm fairly certain that I'm speaking for all of us when I say this. We do not object to people doing soul-searching on their own and deciding whether or not they can read a romance. That's how it should be done.

What we object to is the attitude that seems to be prevalent in many of these comments. The attitude that the gift God gave us and the ministry He has called us to is a grievous sin. We're not supposed to judge each other, yet that is precisely what's happening here. Romance authors are being judged for the gifts that God gave us. Would you rather we violate Jesus's commandments and hide our lights (gifts) under a bushel? 

I don't know what your God-given talent is. But if someone told you that that talent was a sin, how would you react? About the same as us, I'd guess.

No one has the right to tell a fiction writer that the gift God gave them is a sin. No one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Melissa Griffin, many of the women who have responded to this post are not romance readers. They are romance AUTHORS. I am priviliged to count many of them as my friends.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m fairly certain that I&#8217;m speaking for all of us when I say this. We do not object to people doing soul-searching on their own and deciding whether or not they can read a romance. That&#8217;s how it should be done.</p>
<p>What we object to is the attitude that seems to be prevalent in many of these comments. The attitude that the gift God gave us and the ministry He has called us to is a grievous sin. We&#8217;re not supposed to judge each other, yet that is precisely what&#8217;s happening here. Romance authors are being judged for the gifts that God gave us. Would you rather we violate Jesus&#8217;s commandments and hide our lights (gifts) under a bushel? </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know what your God-given talent is. But if someone told you that that talent was a sin, how would you react? About the same as us, I&#8217;d guess.</p>
<p>No one has the right to tell a fiction writer that the gift God gave them is a sin. No one.</p>
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		<title>By: mary k</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-126724</link>
		<dc:creator>mary k</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 18:17:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>dr. moore ... 
1. there's a bunch of us in a far-away mission field, struggling to survive each day without losing our sanity.
2. thank you for an encouraging, honest, uplifting blog.
3. keep writing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>dr. moore &#8230;<br />
1. there&#8217;s a bunch of us in a far-away mission field, struggling to survive each day without losing our sanity.<br />
2. thank you for an encouraging, honest, uplifting blog.<br />
3. keep writing.</p>
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		<title>By: Nikole Hahn</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/05/18/can-romance-novels-hurt-your-heart/#comment-126720</link>
		<dc:creator>Nikole Hahn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 18:16:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Pamela Nees, While your point about having the same excitement for the scriptures may be valid, I think some Christians are in danger of becoming so pious and legalistic that we fail to recognize the value in any work. It's like those people who look down on contemporary Christian music during service and say hymns only are socially acceptable. At one point, they were new, too. I believe it was the Lord of the Rings trilogy that also had sorcery. Should we ban those books? 

I actually loved the scene where it was explained in the movie of Harry Potter (can't remember which one) that evil couldn't touch him because his parents died for him to save him from the evil one. The Bible and fiction are two separate things. The Bible requires more thorough reading with the notes and in context. Fiction allows a different sort of enjoyment. Some may accidentally or purposely allude to God or the Bible. 

Yes, we should honor Jesus with our choices and our life, but all of us will fall short and someone will always have an opinion about what we should read or watch on television. A friend of mine with a PHD read everything so she can be better armed to out-debate the militant atheists who want to disprove God. She wanted to be well informed what was out there in the literary world. 

I learned a long time ago not to jump on the Christian band wagon, but investigate it for myself. So I see nothing wrong with Harry Potter. I'd be more concerned with those readers of the author of Angels and Demons whom people began believing his stuff was true than silly Harry Potter with its cute characters and enduring plot points and that moving staircase.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Pamela Nees, While your point about having the same excitement for the scriptures may be valid, I think some Christians are in danger of becoming so pious and legalistic that we fail to recognize the value in any work. It&#8217;s like those people who look down on contemporary Christian music during service and say hymns only are socially acceptable. At one point, they were new, too. I believe it was the Lord of the Rings trilogy that also had sorcery. Should we ban those books? </p>
<p>I actually loved the scene where it was explained in the movie of Harry Potter (can&#8217;t remember which one) that evil couldn&#8217;t touch him because his parents died for him to save him from the evil one. The Bible and fiction are two separate things. The Bible requires more thorough reading with the notes and in context. Fiction allows a different sort of enjoyment. Some may accidentally or purposely allude to God or the Bible. </p>
<p>Yes, we should honor Jesus with our choices and our life, but all of us will fall short and someone will always have an opinion about what we should read or watch on television. A friend of mine with a PHD read everything so she can be better armed to out-debate the militant atheists who want to disprove God. She wanted to be well informed what was out there in the literary world. </p>
<p>I learned a long time ago not to jump on the Christian band wagon, but investigate it for myself. So I see nothing wrong with Harry Potter. I&#8217;d be more concerned with those readers of the author of Angels and Demons whom people began believing his stuff was true than silly Harry Potter with its cute characters and enduring plot points and that moving staircase.</p>
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		<title>By: Susan Stilley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan Stilley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 18:10:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Bart Barber, 
When you start your 'Recovering Lumps On The Couch Twelve Step' group, would you please invite Kevin to a meeting?  After watching 'Somewhere In Time' (w/Christopher Reeve &#38; Jane Seymour), I wistfully asked, "Would you travel across decades of time to be with me?"  He muttered from his i-pad, "I might go across the street.  If it's not raining."  Good thing I like my heroes with a bit of sarcasm.  :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Bart Barber,<br />
When you start your &#8216;Recovering Lumps On The Couch Twelve Step&#8217; group, would you please invite Kevin to a meeting?  After watching &#8216;Somewhere In Time&#8217; (w/Christopher Reeve &amp; Jane Seymour), I wistfully asked, &#8220;Would you travel across decades of time to be with me?&#8221;  He muttered from his i-pad, &#8220;I might go across the street.  If it&#8217;s not raining.&#8221;  Good thing I like my heroes with a bit of sarcasm.  :D</p>
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		<title>By: Nikole Hahn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nikole Hahn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 18:05:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Sandy Dengler, Guys love differently. They are different than us. Some guys are romantic. Some guys have trouble with the words. It falls upon us to show them we love them and how we wish to be loved by them, but also to encourage them. But no guy can ever live up to a fictional character in a book. My guy for instance can carry guns and shoot a bow like Robin Hood. However, he's not always going to bring roses home for me. He's allergic. LOL. And I don't ever want to see him wearing tights or a kilt or a stuffy suit. Okay, humor there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Sandy Dengler, Guys love differently. They are different than us. Some guys are romantic. Some guys have trouble with the words. It falls upon us to show them we love them and how we wish to be loved by them, but also to encourage them. But no guy can ever live up to a fictional character in a book. My guy for instance can carry guns and shoot a bow like Robin Hood. However, he&#8217;s not always going to bring roses home for me. He&#8217;s allergic. LOL. And I don&#8217;t ever want to see him wearing tights or a kilt or a stuffy suit. Okay, humor there.</p>
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