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	<title>Comments on: Family Tensions and the Holidays</title>
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	<description>By Russell D. Moore. Russell D. Moore serves as the teaching pastor at Highview Baptist Church in Louisville, Ky. In addition, Dr. Moore is the Dean of the School of Theology and Senior Vice President for Academic Administration at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. Find sermons and other resources to help Christians engage the culture from a biblical worldview at www.russellmoore.com.</description>
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		<title>By: LD</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/11/21/family-tensions-and-the-holidays/#comment-162302</link>
		<dc:creator>LD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2011 19:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The final word:  a real man would stand up and lead his family, and any company, in family worship during the Christmas holiday.  No qualms, no complaints.  Just like eating oatmeal, it's the right thing to do...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The final word:  a real man would stand up and lead his family, and any company, in family worship during the Christmas holiday.  No qualms, no complaints.  Just like eating oatmeal, it&#8217;s the right thing to do&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Family Tensions and the Holidays &#171; rcfkids</title>
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		<dc:creator>Family Tensions and the Holidays &#171; rcfkids</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2011 15:11:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Moore has a great post about Family Tensions and the Holidays. Share this:TwitterFacebookLike this:LikeBe the first to like this post.   from &#8594; About [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Wade C. Davis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wade C. Davis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Nov 2011 22:46:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for this post Dr. Moore.  

I agree that we should all examine ourselves and not be so quick to condemn others and yet at the same time, I can't say that its right to sell out the truth and throw it under the bus as a means of keeping peace.  Please don't get me wrong because I don't think you are advocating this but it is to say that the life is a hard one and it is one that wears me down.  Perhaps I don't rest in Him enough and I fatigue because I try to do too much under my own power and volition.  

It is my hope for us all to come before Christ on bended knee, bowing head and an open heart and ask Christ to guide our direction during our time we have been granted to fight the good fight according to His will.

God bless all of my Christian brothers and sisters.  I love you all and please do not loose heart.  

May it all be for His glory,
W.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this post Dr. Moore.  </p>
<p>I agree that we should all examine ourselves and not be so quick to condemn others and yet at the same time, I can&#8217;t say that its right to sell out the truth and throw it under the bus as a means of keeping peace.  Please don&#8217;t get me wrong because I don&#8217;t think you are advocating this but it is to say that the life is a hard one and it is one that wears me down.  Perhaps I don&#8217;t rest in Him enough and I fatigue because I try to do too much under my own power and volition.  </p>
<p>It is my hope for us all to come before Christ on bended knee, bowing head and an open heart and ask Christ to guide our direction during our time we have been granted to fight the good fight according to His will.</p>
<p>God bless all of my Christian brothers and sisters.  I love you all and please do not loose heart.  </p>
<p>May it all be for His glory,<br />
W.</p>
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		<title>By: thumb licks [thanksgiving edition] &#124; spreading the fame</title>
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		<dc:creator>thumb licks [thanksgiving edition] &#124; spreading the fame</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Nov 2011 17:41:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Blake</title>
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		<dc:creator>Blake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 22:17:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@yankeegospelgirl, 



"Some of us are passionate about truth while still fully aware of our own sinfulness and shortcomings" -

No one is fully aware of our own sinfulness. Neither is Dr. Moore. That is why I praise God that certain leaders continue to remind us to examine ourselves while we contend for the truth. We all should examine our motives, and fully expect our sin to be ever-present. If you did this, you wouldn't see this exhortation as tired old false dichotomies.</description>
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<p>&#8220;Some of us are passionate about truth while still fully aware of our own sinfulness and shortcomings&#8221; -</p>
<p>No one is fully aware of our own sinfulness. Neither is Dr. Moore. That is why I praise God that certain leaders continue to remind us to examine ourselves while we contend for the truth. We all should examine our motives, and fully expect our sin to be ever-present. If you did this, you wouldn&#8217;t see this exhortation as tired old false dichotomies.</p>
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		<title>By: The Gospel, Thanksgiving &#38; Family Grace &#124; Willamette Groups</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/11/21/family-tensions-and-the-holidays/#comment-160570</link>
		<dc:creator>The Gospel, Thanksgiving &#38; Family Grace &#124; Willamette Groups</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 21:21:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] complementary post to read is Russell Moore’s “Family Tensions and the Holidays.” He organizes his counsel around five things to remember, especially for difficult extended [...]</description>
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		<title>By: yankeegospelgirl</title>
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		<dc:creator>yankeegospelgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 19:43:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I didn't miss the point of the post. I was simply noting that Dr. Moore made a hasty claim that is not backed up by Scripture. As for the post as a whole, it seems like the same tired old false dichotomies---better to be kind than right, better to be loving than truthful, etc., etc. There seems to be this assumption that anybody who wants to get it right and tell the truth must be smug and self-satisfied about it. Some of us are passionate about the truth while still fully aware of our own sinfulness and shortcomings.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I didn&#8217;t miss the point of the post. I was simply noting that Dr. Moore made a hasty claim that is not backed up by Scripture. As for the post as a whole, it seems like the same tired old false dichotomies&#8212;better to be kind than right, better to be loving than truthful, etc., etc. There seems to be this assumption that anybody who wants to get it right and tell the truth must be smug and self-satisfied about it. Some of us are passionate about the truth while still fully aware of our own sinfulness and shortcomings.</p>
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		<title>By: The Gospel, Thanksgiving, and Family Grace</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Gospel, Thanksgiving, and Family Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 18:57:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] complementary post to read is Russell Moore’s “Family Tensions and the Holidays [3].” He organizes his counsel around five things to remember, especially for difficult extended [...]</description>
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		<title>By: This and That Special Thanksgiving Edition! &#171; The Thompsonian Times</title>
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		<dc:creator>This and That Special Thanksgiving Edition! &#171; The Thompsonian Times</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 18:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Family Tensions and the Holidays - Often, the divisiveness that happens at extended family dinner tables is not because an unbelieving family member decides to persecute a Christian. It’s instead because a Christian decides to go ahead and sort the wheat from the weeds right now, rather than waiting for Judgment Day (Matt. 13:29-30). Yes, the gospel exposes sin, but the gospel does so strategically, in order to point to Christ. Antagonizing unbelievers at a family dinner table because they think or feel like unbelievers isn’t the way of Christ.  Some Christians think their belligerence is actually a sign of holiness. They leave the Christmas table saying, “See, if you’re not being opposed, then you’re not with Christ!” Sometimes, of course, divisions must come. But think of the qualifications Jesus gives for his church’s pastors. They must not be “quarrelsome” and they must be “well thought of by outsiders” (1 Tim. 3:3,7). That’s in the same list as not being a heretic or a drunk. &#8211; Russell Moore [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Family Tensions and the Holidays - Often, the divisiveness that happens at extended family dinner tables is not because an unbelieving family member decides to persecute a Christian. It’s instead because a Christian decides to go ahead and sort the wheat from the weeds right now, rather than waiting for Judgment Day (Matt. 13:29-30). Yes, the gospel exposes sin, but the gospel does so strategically, in order to point to Christ. Antagonizing unbelievers at a family dinner table because they think or feel like unbelievers isn’t the way of Christ.  Some Christians think their belligerence is actually a sign of holiness. They leave the Christmas table saying, “See, if you’re not being opposed, then you’re not with Christ!” Sometimes, of course, divisions must come. But think of the qualifications Jesus gives for his church’s pastors. They must not be “quarrelsome” and they must be “well thought of by outsiders” (1 Tim. 3:3,7). That’s in the same list as not being a heretic or a drunk. &#8211; Russell Moore [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Worth Reading&#8211;November 23, 2011 &#171; Gospel Encouragement For Everyday Life</title>
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		<dc:creator>Worth Reading&#8211;November 23, 2011 &#171; Gospel Encouragement For Everyday Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 12:57:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] is a great post that goes really well with the post we had yesterday. This is a post from Russell Moore on family tensions around the holidays. I hope it&#8217;s a [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Calvert Wallace</title>
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		<dc:creator>Calvert Wallace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 05:45:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dr. Moore, thanks for the post. It is always good examine our own heart and motives as we approach time with family, particularly as we hope to redeem the time with them.

Brian Thomas and yankeegospelgirl, you appear to have missed the point of Dr. Moore's post. It might be a good time examine your own motives and humility.

Happy Thanksgiving all. May your time with family be refreshing and fruitful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Moore, thanks for the post. It is always good examine our own heart and motives as we approach time with family, particularly as we hope to redeem the time with them.</p>
<p>Brian Thomas and yankeegospelgirl, you appear to have missed the point of Dr. Moore&#8217;s post. It might be a good time examine your own motives and humility.</p>
<p>Happy Thanksgiving all. May your time with family be refreshing and fruitful.</p>
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		<title>By: Family Tensions and the Holidays &#124; Time For Discernment</title>
		<link>http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/11/21/family-tensions-and-the-holidays/#comment-160442</link>
		<dc:creator>Family Tensions and the Holidays &#124; Time For Discernment</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 04:20:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/11/21/family-tensions-and-the-holidays/ Share this:TwitterFacebookLike this:LikeBe the first to like this post.   This entry was posted in KFD. Bookmark the permalink.    &#8592; The Inhumanity of Easy&#160;Answers Parents and the Image of&#160;God &#8594; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] <a href="http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/11/21/family-tensions-and-the-holidays/"  rel="nofollow">http://www.russellmoore.com/2011/11/21/family-tensions-and-the-holidays/</a> Share this:TwitterFacebookLike this:LikeBe the first to like this post.   This entry was posted in KFD. Bookmark the permalink.    &larr; The Inhumanity of Easy&nbsp;Answers Parents and the Image of&nbsp;God &rarr; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Laurie Wallin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laurie Wallin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 01:22:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The truth always stings a little... but what joyous healing and perspective it brings! Way to speak the truth in love to all of us striving to be a little more like Him these holidays!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The truth always stings a little&#8230; but what joyous healing and perspective it brings! Way to speak the truth in love to all of us striving to be a little more like Him these holidays!</p>
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		<title>By: Family, Thanksgiving and the Gospel &#124; Redemption Church of Northridge</title>
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		<dc:creator>Family, Thanksgiving and the Gospel &#124; Redemption Church of Northridge</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 00:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] complementary post to read is Russell Moore’s “Family Tensions and the Holidays.” He organizes his counsel around five things to remember, especially for difficult extended [...]</description>
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		<title>By: The Gospel, Thanksgiving, and Family Grace &#8211; Justin Taylor</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Gospel, Thanksgiving, and Family Grace &#8211; Justin Taylor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2011 21:33:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] complementary post to read is Russell Moore&#8217;s &#8220;Family Tensions and the Holidays.&#8221; He organizes his counsel around five things to remember, especially for difficult extended [...]</description>
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		<title>By: A Humbling Article &#124; TuBu</title>
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		<dc:creator>A Humbling Article &#124; TuBu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2011 15:14:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Family Tensions and the Holidays  by Russell D. Moore Share this:EmailLike this:LikeBe the first to like this post. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Beth Morgan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Beth Morgan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2011 14:59:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Dr. Moore for writing articles like this one.  This has humbled my heart and spirit today and I'm reminded who ultimately has power and control in my life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Dr. Moore for writing articles like this one.  This has humbled my heart and spirit today and I&#8217;m reminded who ultimately has power and control in my life.</p>
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		<title>By: yankeegospelgirl</title>
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		<dc:creator>yankeegospelgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2011 02:29:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"Jesus never, not once, seeks to prove he is right."

Mark, Chapter 2

8.And immediately when Jesus perceived in his spirit that they so reasoned within themselves, he said unto them, Why reason ye these things in your hearts?

 9.Whether is it easier to say to the sick of the palsy, Thy sins be forgiven thee; or to say, Arise, and take up thy bed, and walk?

 10.But that ye may know that the Son of man hath power on earth to forgive sins, (he saith to the sick of the palsy,)

 11. I say unto thee, Arise, and take up thy bed, and go thy way into thine house.

 12. And immediately he arose, took up the bed, and went forth before them all; insomuch that they were all amazed, and glorified God, saying, We never saw it on this fashion.

 13. And he went forth again by the sea side; and all the multitude resorted unto him, and he taught them.

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That was only one I thought of off the top of my head, and I am confident anyone could find similar passages. Jesus didn't beat around the bush about who he was and the power he had.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Jesus never, not once, seeks to prove he is right.&#8221;</p>
<p>Mark, Chapter 2</p>
<p>8.And immediately when Jesus perceived in his spirit that they so reasoned within themselves, he said unto them, Why reason ye these things in your hearts?</p>
<p> 9.Whether is it easier to say to the sick of the palsy, Thy sins be forgiven thee; or to say, Arise, and take up thy bed, and walk?</p>
<p> 10.But that ye may know that the Son of man hath power on earth to forgive sins, (he saith to the sick of the palsy,)</p>
<p> 11. I say unto thee, Arise, and take up thy bed, and go thy way into thine house.</p>
<p> 12. And immediately he arose, took up the bed, and went forth before them all; insomuch that they were all amazed, and glorified God, saying, We never saw it on this fashion.</p>
<p> 13. And he went forth again by the sea side; and all the multitude resorted unto him, and he taught them.</p>
<p>***</p>
<p>That was only one I thought of off the top of my head, and I am confident anyone could find similar passages. Jesus didn&#8217;t beat around the bush about who he was and the power he had.</p>
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		<title>By: Brian Thomas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brian Thomas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2011 21:51:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>After reading your article, I am left feeling disillusioned. 

First, you do the very thing that you are accusing the holiday Christian visitor of doing and that is: you're blazing into blogosphere pointing fingers at Christians by generalizing us to be seemingly self righteous. For example, you state that divisiveness is OFTEN caused, not by the unbelieving family, but by the Christian family. Have you done a statistical analysis on this fact? I do believe there is some truth in your statement; however, I often deal with many humble families that visit their extended families, and this is true for myself, that we leave feeling spiritually exhausted from being a pin cushion. This is not because of our pride or because we attack our family, it is the opposite. 

That said, this leads me to my second point, you leave no resolve. How would you suggest we converse with Uncle Happy who finds glory and pride in his fifty years of being in a drunken stupor? Maybe Uncle Happy finds pride in his new live-in girlfriend that he found at the bar and he likes to brag about his escapades with her? How are we to relate? Sure, we have tried changing the conversation to something more glorifying or at least less vile but Uncle Happy likes to go back to the source of his problems: himself. How would you suggest we chat with Aunt X when she constantly discusses her under age future son-in-law that is living with her and her daughter and how she feels it is safe that as an adult, she purchases condoms to teach them responsibility? Are we suppose to say, "Oh yippy!". Then, we have to deal with snide questions and criticisms of our faith, our methods of life, etc because as you know, the Christian walk is extremely foreign these days. Of course we answer back humbly; unfortunately, you leave no resolve and this leaves me to my third point.

Based off of your article, I am left feeling that I should not share the Gospel or my faith with my family. You argue that the sword is divisive but for carnal reasons and not gospel reasons. I don't know about you but there are many times I've shared the gospel in all love and humility and it still divides. That is because the Gospel does divide the carnal. It is ill repute to the unregenerate. It is not my fault. Therefore, should I not share it to maintain the peace? In the same regards, you talk about honor and respect but my family does not feel the Gospel is honoring or respectful and many families are this way. However, if I don't share it with them they may never hear it. So, is it better to share the Gospel or to look like the model Christian family that they would have me be? I'm sure you would respond (I'm guessing) that we should share the Gospel and our faith humbly but from the feel of your article, we're left being on the defensive and are left in jeopardy of forgoing the Gospel at all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After reading your article, I am left feeling disillusioned. </p>
<p>First, you do the very thing that you are accusing the holiday Christian visitor of doing and that is: you&#8217;re blazing into blogosphere pointing fingers at Christians by generalizing us to be seemingly self righteous. For example, you state that divisiveness is OFTEN caused, not by the unbelieving family, but by the Christian family. Have you done a statistical analysis on this fact? I do believe there is some truth in your statement; however, I often deal with many humble families that visit their extended families, and this is true for myself, that we leave feeling spiritually exhausted from being a pin cushion. This is not because of our pride or because we attack our family, it is the opposite. </p>
<p>That said, this leads me to my second point, you leave no resolve. How would you suggest we converse with Uncle Happy who finds glory and pride in his fifty years of being in a drunken stupor? Maybe Uncle Happy finds pride in his new live-in girlfriend that he found at the bar and he likes to brag about his escapades with her? How are we to relate? Sure, we have tried changing the conversation to something more glorifying or at least less vile but Uncle Happy likes to go back to the source of his problems: himself. How would you suggest we chat with Aunt X when she constantly discusses her under age future son-in-law that is living with her and her daughter and how she feels it is safe that as an adult, she purchases condoms to teach them responsibility? Are we suppose to say, &#8220;Oh yippy!&#8221;. Then, we have to deal with snide questions and criticisms of our faith, our methods of life, etc because as you know, the Christian walk is extremely foreign these days. Of course we answer back humbly; unfortunately, you leave no resolve and this leaves me to my third point.</p>
<p>Based off of your article, I am left feeling that I should not share the Gospel or my faith with my family. You argue that the sword is divisive but for carnal reasons and not gospel reasons. I don&#8217;t know about you but there are many times I&#8217;ve shared the gospel in all love and humility and it still divides. That is because the Gospel does divide the carnal. It is ill repute to the unregenerate. It is not my fault. Therefore, should I not share it to maintain the peace? In the same regards, you talk about honor and respect but my family does not feel the Gospel is honoring or respectful and many families are this way. However, if I don&#8217;t share it with them they may never hear it. So, is it better to share the Gospel or to look like the model Christian family that they would have me be? I&#8217;m sure you would respond (I&#8217;m guessing) that we should share the Gospel and our faith humbly but from the feel of your article, we&#8217;re left being on the defensive and are left in jeopardy of forgoing the Gospel at all.</p>
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