What Maurice Sendak Can Teach the Church

— Tuesday, May 8th, 2012 —

Maurice Sendak, who just died, doesn’t seem, at first glance, to have much to teach Christians. After all, he was an atheist with a cynical outlook and a foul mouth. But underneath all of that, I think, Sendak saw something of the fallen glory of the universe we followers of Jesus sometimes ignore.

Sendak’s most famous work, of course, is his children’s book Where the Wild Things Are. It’s about a boy named Max, who is sent to his room for telling his mother he’ll eat her up. My sons love this story. Whenever I read it, they start shifting around in their seats as they hear about his room becoming a forest, about his encountering scary, teeth-baring “wild things.”

My boys aren’t unusual. I loved that story as much as they did, when I was their age. And when I talk to people about my age, I find that this book struck, and strikes, a particular resonance with at least two generations of American children, no matter what their racial, social, economic, or religious backgrounds.

Sendak said that the “wild things” originated with his fear and loathing of his grownup extended family, trying to hug and kiss him and “eat him up.” But I think there’s more to it than that, more that causes this story to persist.

If, as both ancient and contemporary wisdom tells us, stories exist to help us categorize our fears and aspirations, then “wild” children’s stories remind us of what we see everywhere in human art, from cave paintings to country music to the Cannes Film Festival. We’re afraid of the wildness “out there” in the scary universe around us. Whether we fear saber-toothed tigers or Wall Street collapse or malaria or our parent’s impending divorce, there are frightening, threatening forces out there that seem outside our control.

But Sendak also, at least in his artistic imagination, also recognized something the Christian revelation tells us clearly. Worse than what’s “out there” is the uncontrollable “wildness” inside of us, those passions and desires and rages and longings and sorrows within our psyches that seem to be even scarier because they’re so hidden, so close, and so much at the core of who we are. The wildness within us doesn’t seem to end, either. It just morphs throughout the life-cycle from toddler-age tantrums to teenage hormones to midlife crises to, well, sometimes, a lonely, cynical elderly person facing death.

The kind of story Sendak intuited is part of a larger fabric, the knowledge that the wildness both out there and in here needs to be governed. The wildness needs to be reined in, and reigned in. We need a king, and we need to be part of a kingdom. After all, Max only gains power over his “wild things” when he gains self-control, control that comes with his being named “king of all of the wild things”

I don’t know what happened in Sendak’s life in those moments before death. But I hope maybe, just maybe, he found that One who alone was able to do what Sendak imagined for that little boy in his story: to look wildness right in the eye, and to become king over it with a word. The Word came into the world, and the wildness did not overcome it.

At the end of the Wild Things, the book puts the rambunctious here right back in his own room after the journey is over. It’s the same room his mother had sent him off to, for his wildness, without his supper. But after his time with the wild things, he finds his supper waiting for him. “And it was still hot,” the book concludes.

At the time the book was published, the psychiatrist Bruno Bettelheim said the scary nature of the story wasn’t found with the wild things at all. It was found in the “time out” in the room itself. Being sent to one’s room alone, and without food, he argued, represents desertion, the worst threat a child can face. And maybe that’s what Sendak feared the worst.

Those are the fears addressed by the gospel. Like children frightened by wild things, we retreat backward into the “spirit of slavery” and so “fall back into fear” (Rom. 8:15). The gospel, though, reminds us, all life long, that we have one who has gone ahead “as a forerunner” (Heb. 6:20). We hear a voice telling us to be “strong and courageous” for “I will not leave you or forsake you” (Josh. 1:5), no matter how wild you feel inside. He’s the only one with the authority to tell the devils who accuse us to “be gone.”

Maurice Sendak plumbed our ancient problem. I can only hope that, somewhere in those final moments, he saw the demon-crushing cross of Jesus. I hope he saw the one who went out beyond the gates of Jerusalem, to where the wild things are, and became king of all the wild things, forever.

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12 Responses to “What Maurice Sendak Can Teach the Church”

  1. Christiane

    I loved that book for my daughter when she was little.
    She had hundreds of little books to choose from, but that was her all-time favorite for us to read to her. She knew every word by heart, but still wanted us to read it aloud. She wanted to HEAR it. :)

    Sometimes people have more faith and understanding about God than even they can fathom. God judges the hearts of men. I leave people always to His great mercy for judgement, as I know that our kind who are fallen can never quite get judging others right, and we can only love one another with God’s grace helping us.
    All goodness comes from God and returns to Him. For a while, we can benefit from it here on Earth, when others share it with us.

    I hope M. Sendak had a ‘change of heart’ somewhere along the journey he was on, and is at peace now. I can hope because I understand ‘mercy’ having received it many times from the Holy One.

  2. Clifford Simon

    When Max went across a sea in a boat, and when he looked the wild things straight in the eye and said, “Be still!”, Max became Christ the King who got in a sea in a boat and said “Be still!” to the storm. The allusion gives the book extra charm, at least for me as an adult. (After eating up your mother, I guess, what could be wilder than ascending to be a very god?)

  3. Paul P

    I love that moment when Max returns to his room and finds his dinner still hot. I’ve always envisioned that as what our return to heaven would be like. There, a thousand ages to our wild, fallen world are like an evening gone, and however much we’ve disappointed our Father, His grace is waiting for us if we simply ask for His forgiveness.

    I pray that Mr Sendak chose to accept God’s mercy and that hot dinner.

  4. Wade C. Davis

    Amen Dr. Moore!

    Our advocate can tame this wild world and it is only through His permissive will, the wild is allowed to be wild. We can be, for example, protected by being hedged in like Job (1:10). I have heard it once said, however, that the Lord has a perfecting love and not a doting one. He perfects us in our trials that we find in the wilderness (James 1:4). With this in mind, the wilderness turns and changes from being a threat to a bitter-sweet element we find in our growing pains. Once we’ve cleared the forest, however, we become even more aware of how He carried us through as we rest in His light that overcomes the darkness.

    I hope Mr. Sendak came to know the salvation of Christ Jesus. I hope he heard the voice in the wilderness declaring the Gospel and received the gift of eternal life.

    May it all be for His glory,
    Wade

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