Joan or John? My Answer: Part One

— Monday, May 25th, 2009 —

Several weeks ago I posted my final exam question for students in my Christian ethics class at Southern Seminary. Read the full question here. The short version is that Joan was born John, but has lived as Joan for thirty years. She has a daughter. She now is convicted of sin and wants to follow Christ. She’ll do whatever Jesus would have her to do, but she needs some direction from you, her pastor.

Now, before you start posting complaints, let me say that I’m using the name “Joan” and the female pronouns here simply as a literary device, to postpone the debate a bit as to whether this person is really male or female.

In class, I let my students bat around and debate one another about how this situation should best be handled, and then I weighed in. Here’s what I think’s at stake in this situation, and how a Christian ought to look at it.

The first issue is the gospel. Christ Jesus came to save sinners. The Lord Jesus offered up his life as a sacrifice for this person (this isn’t an extent of the atonement debate, so save that one for later), and his bloody cross and empty tomb are enough to reconcile any sinner, including this one, to God. The pastor should abandon any sense of revulsion because Joan’s situation is “weird” or “perverted.” All sin is weird and perverted. The fact that any of it (especially our own) seems “normal” to us is part of what we need the gospel for.

The second issue is repentance. Repentance is necessary for salvation, as is articulated in the gospel message throughout the Scripture (Mark 1:15; Acts 3:19, 17:30). I think the account of our Lord’s interaction with the rich young ruler (Luke 18:18-29) is in order here, as well as his confrontation by the Syro-Phoenocian woman (Mark 7:24-30). In both cases, Jesus probed in order to bring forth, in the first case, a visible lack of repentance, or, in the second, a visible manifestation of faith. The message Joan has heard is the same message every Christian has heard, “Come, follow me.” The pastor wishes to know, as he would with any sinner, whether she’s counted the cost of doing so.

At the same time, the pastor ought to know there is no simple solution here. Whatever Joan does will leave havoc in its wake. Her daughter will either grow up with a “mother” who has deceived her all life long about the most basic aspect of who she is, and what their relationship is, or she will go through the trauma of discovering her Mom is actually her Dad.

My counsel would be, after discerning that Joan is truly trusting in Christ (and it certainly appears that she is), to make sure she understands that part of the sin she’s walking away from is a root-level rebellion against the Creator. God’s creation is good, and he does not create generic persons but “male and female,” in his own image (Gen 1:27). In seeking to “become” a woman, John has established himself as a god, determining the very structure of his createdness. Part of the freedom that comes in Christ is his recognition that he is a creature, not a god, not a machine, not a freak.

This means that the pastor should, in his role as an undershepherd of Christ, start speaking to Joan as “John,” and identifying him as “him.” This will seem strange and discordant to Joan. Of course it will. What is going on in this person’s life, however, is what goes on in every Christian’s life. We’ve put on a “new man,” crucifying the old way (Eph 4:21-24). We are a “new creation” with the past done away with (2 Cor 5:17). We have a “new name” (Rev 2:17) that seems strange and mystifying, with an extended family we have to learn to love and walk with.

Joan is not going to “feel” like John, and that’s okay. But the pastor must start ministering to him by helping him identify what peace looks like, what the destination is to which he’s headed. And that’s as a man.

Furthermore, the pastor cannot deceive his congregation. He doesn’t need to elaborate on every aspect of this person’s past (any more than he would with any other repentant sinner). But the church baptizes, not an individual, and the church must know the person being baptized. To baptize one created a man as “my sister in Christ” (whatever the baptismal formula used) isn’t doing justice to a God who speaks the truth.

That’s only the start of the ethical and pastoral dilemmas erupting here. In the days to come, I’ll address what I think about what “Joan” should do with “her” daughter, about whether John should seek to undo the sex reassignment surgery, and how the church should be the presence to Christ to him in the aftermath of all of this.

13 Responses to “Joan or John? My Answer: Part One”

  1. Brenda Lester

    Dr. Moore,

    Thank you for publishing this article. I read the question when you first published it and hoped you would follow up.

    Thank you!
    Brenda Lester

    Reply

  2. Sarah

    I have to write a reply here too. God doesn’t make mistakes, but children all over the world are born with deformities, with holes in the heart, with physical problems, mental problems, these things happen, and we don’t say God made a mistake, we say that God has a plan.

    Who are we to say that God doesn’t want some people to be transsexual?

    Who is God testing in this situation? To quote you, it’s about how you deal with the situation, not the end outcome of the situation.

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    Josh in reply

    @Sarah, Certainly, God doesn’t make mistakes. However, the world is fallen, and it is not God’s sovereign will that children are born with deformities. These naturally occuring deformities, however, extend beyond the physical to our very hearts and natures. That is the depth of the corruption of the world. Our hearts exemplify this sin and darkness; we are to “put off” our old selves and former ways of life to embrace “the truth that is in Jesus” (Eph. 4;17-32).

    The matter isn’t an issue of targeting transexuality; its an issue of knowing that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Before salvation, we all lived for desires and passions that were not of Christ and were enslaved by them. In coming to Him, we find freedom from those desires, and we are given new desires and hearts that seek after him (1 Pt. 1:13-15, Col 3). When we seek after Jesus, we will inevitably begin the change from our old selves and “set our minds on things above”, as our desires and hearts are now changed and no longer want those past chains.

    Just as you wouldn’t encourage the naturally depressive to embrace that negative mental tendency, or for a heterosexual person to encourage his lust through pornography and sexual sin, or for an addictive person to continue in whatever it is that traps him, so you wouldn’t encourage a transsexual to continue on the path laid by their “old self”. All of these behaviors are natural tendencies, but they are all destructive. Again, God’s will and the evil in the world are in direct conflict. He is the one who rescues us from our naturally fallen old selves and renews us in Christ.

    It is true, how you deal with the situation is a test. In this case, it appears that the pastor would be tested with a situation that is very different from his past experience, which should draw him closer to God for guidance and direction in the matter.

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